After Hillary Clinton’s loss, women around the country grieved. So did their young daughters. The glass ceiling held.
“To all the little girls watching this, never doubt that you are powerful and valuable and deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world,” Clinton said in her concession speech.
Clinton reminded us of the little girls throughout her campaign, even producing an ad showing them looking in the mirror while listening to Donald’s Trump’s put-downs of women. Clinton implored us to remember this election would speak to them.
That’s why Trump’s victory was a crushing, devastating blow to those hoping to send a message that misogyny would no longer be tolerated.
It’s not enough to tell little girls they still matter. It’s not enough to tell little girls they can become anything they want in life. It’s not enough to tell them they’re equal to little boys.
Little girls should know they may be in for a different ride in life. When they show leadership, they may be told they’re bossy, attention-seeking and annoying. They may not get the same kind of praise for a job well done. They may not get the same raises. They may not get the same promotions. They may be told they’re not likable. They may be told they’re too ambitious. They may be told to wait their turn. When they wait their turn, they may be told they’re entitled.
No one wants to have that conversation with little girls. We don’t want to admit this stuff still happens. We don’t want to expose them to these unpleasant realities. We don’t want to confront our own biases and our own complicity.
Many people say Clinton didn’t lose because she’s a woman. Even if that’s true, we can’t deny she’s been held to a different standard her whole career. We can’t deny Trump’s misogyny didn’t prevent him from winning an election.
I have no doubt there will one day be a woman president. Maybe it will be more likely if we confront what often happens to women when they strive for success. Maybe women would be more prepared for these obstacles if they were warned — when they were little girls.
My book, Broad, Casted explores the role of gender in my journalism career and campaign for state assembly. It is available in print and digital editions. There will be a book signing at the Little Theatre Cafe on November 20, from 2 to 4 p.m. Coffee and cookies provided.
Links of the Day:
- Cuomo in a New York Daily News op-ed: “The fate of the ship always takes precedence over the identity of the captain…”
- Glenn Greenwald: Trump will have vast powers. He can thank Democrats for them.
- Bernie Sanders has a great op-ed on why Trump won — and what we can do now.
- A University of Rochester professor steps down as undergrad program director after controversial Facebook posts.
- Excellent assessment of how Democrats fell apart — and not just in the 2016 election.
- Gretchen Carlson has a new mission: fighting workplace sexual harassment.
- Onondaga County and Syracuse are still seriously talking merger.